John, Betsy and I were shocked and saddened to hear of Kim's passing. It's never easy and there is no time for this to happen that will lessen the hurt. Right now you are probably in shock, I know from experience. It's almost been a year since we lost Melissa, and it's very hard. I just want you to know that if you need anything, or just an ear to talk to, please don't hesitate to call me. I can honestly say I know how you feel. You grieve in any way that helps you, and just take one day at a time. I know you don't believe this but it will get better. Hang tough, pray and keep the faith. I'm always here for you. Erle